Although I agree with the others' frustration I'm gonna try to give you a helpful explanation as to why they're so annoyed:

1. Your post title is not descriptive or informative. The title should introduce and describe the post to follow; your title could be implying that your Xbox caught fire, your dog is choking on a Switch controller, or you're stuck trying to get past the first boss of Elden Ring.

2. Your question is subjective. There is no one right answer. Especially comparing a home console with a portable self-contained VR headset; you came to /r/fruit asking whether you should have an apple or an orange for lunch because you had a banana yesterday.

3. You haven't given us anywhere near enough information to answer the question. How is your Xbox not meeting your needs? What do you want from the Quest 2? What do you want from the PS5? Why don't you want a Switch or a PC? This goes back to the previous point; there's no one-size-fits-all answer to the question.