Ergonomics are better on the Xbox controller but the features are better on the PS5 especially if you like driving games, gran tourismo is just a joy.

Now, if all your friends play on the box, then I'd probably get the box just for that. Performance is not that different if at all, at least not at the moment but we're also 2 years in this generation, I'd imagine any perceived differences would be apparent by now. If I had to guess I'd say that xsx is being held back by the xss