I am a dad and I own both the PS5 and XBox Series X. I initially got the PS5 on launch date. My intention was to buy a series S when Bethesda was acquisitiond by Microsoft and realising that I have a 4k TV and that I probably wouldn't play the S due to the limited specs of the series S. To your question it depends on how you value PlayStation exclusives, unlike XBox game pass PlayStation don't release their XBox games on their service. I've not paid for a single game for the XBox apart from gamepass. But be prepared to shell out over £50-£70 per game.