SnipesCC t1_iumy3a2 wrote on November 1, 2022 at 3:40 PM

Reply to comment by FuehrerStoleMyBike in [OC] There are more self-described vegans than vegetarians among US users of Twitter by jasonjonesresearch

I've been a vegetarian for over 25 years. Had tons of meat eaters bother me about it, harass me, and make fun of me. Had a total of 1 vegan ask me why I wasn't vegan. And I'm friends with a lot of vegans, so I'm in the vicinity of them all the time.

FuehrerStoleMyBike t1_iun1qi6 wrote on November 1, 2022 at 4:04 PM

I am not going to argue that obviously more harassment comes from meat-eater side (which makes sense as they make up about 90% of people). But your experience still pretty much proves my point that there is nothing to gain by self-describing yourself as vegetarian on twitter. Even in your progressive bubble you got asked about it - you can imagine that itd happen more often on an anonymous social media plattform then in your circle of frends. So nothing to gain as a vegetarian --> no self-disclosure. Why do people self-discribe as vegan? For the clout. No clout - no self-description.

SnipesCC t1_iun2we3 wrote on November 1, 2022 at 4:12 PM

I don't describe myself in any ways for the 'clout'. And my friend asking me why I wasn't vegan wasn't harassment. It was a question. Compare that to the boss who was made me buy steaks for the company BBQ, dispite knowing how much that would upset me. Or talking about how wonderful his German Potato Salad was, knowing it's the only meat product I actually miss. Or the people making animal noises like mooing while eating to bother me. A simple 'you've been a vegetarian for such a long time, why not go full vegan' is nothing.

FuehrerStoleMyBike t1_iun7qwj wrote on November 1, 2022 at 4:43 PM

I feel like were talking at cross purposes. I never said anything about you. I made an assumption on how vegans behave on twitter and why (which is the purpose of this thread).

Your friends are obviously nice people (and your boss isnt) - but that doesnt really apply on twitter where you interact with strangers. People on twitter care about being recognized as vegans, while they dont care too much about being recognized as vegetarians - thats what the data suggests and what we should discuss about.

To me your experience of getting hate from meat-eaters while your vegan friends dont care was a good example of how even in the best case (the best case being you in a progressive circle of friends) you dont gain anything by self-describing as vegetarian. Then I transposed your real life scenario onto twitter and my argument was that twitter just makes everything worse - so your experience of being a self-describing vegetarian on twitter would be even worse than it is IRL.

As were both vegetarians with a big circle of vegan friends I think were allies here and shouldnt get on each others throats.

btw I have a very good recipe for vegan german potato salad (the one with vinegar/oil) - basically from my grandma but changed a bit to make it vegan (she didnt taste the difference and if grandma doesnt taste it nobody does) if you are interested.

SnipesCC t1_iunaaj3 wrote on November 1, 2022 at 4:59 PM

If you have a link, I would appreciate it. My mom tried making it without bacon, and it just wasn't the same. But it's been decades, replacement meat products have come a long way.