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OlyVal t1_iy75i2q wrote

Vacuum. Dust. Wash the dishes. Wash, dry, fold, and put away the laundry. Empty the garbage. Scrub down the bathroom. Put your dirty clothes in the hamper.

You get the idea, right?

Do all that stuff over and over forever. Share the chores.

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fazlifts t1_iy77an4 wrote

Life isn't about walking on eggshells around your partner.

You both need to establish better ways to communicate what you feel is going wrong. There should be no 'bitter arguments', if something goes wrong ensure the boundaries for how you communicate that to each other are clearly laid out.

That conversation needs to happen when you're both clear of mind and calm.

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internetboyfriend666 t1_iy77i25 wrote

This is not the sub for this question. The purpose of this sub is to ask for simplified explanations to complex topics; it's not for asking for advice. You'll have much better luck elsewhere.

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RavingJodes t1_iy77thc wrote

Sorry. Where should I ask? I though it was a sub for kind advice, like I'm 5 years old, ya know? Sorry though. I'm just really struggling ATM. Trying to avoid the urge to try killing myself again

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littlesausage01 t1_iy782td wrote

She is stressed. This is her true character. Leave, now. or, don’t take my advice and you’ll learn the hard way

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RavingJodes t1_iy78r8o wrote

I wish it were that simple. My dad only has his house in a few weeks, so unless I live on the streets there's nowhere I can go. My mum doesn't have her house yet after the nasty divorce. Besides, she's 500 miles away and I don't have a car, and my dad doesn't want to know her, and my gf has banned m from using the car to even see her. And I have zero friends so noone o stay with. My brother has no space. I'm trapped in this god awful situation. Best I can do short term is try to patch things up

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littlesausage01 t1_iy78xz4 wrote

Damn man you are super nice. I want things to work out for you. Do whatever it takes, you have nothing to lose right?

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littlesausage01 t1_iy795n0 wrote

If you two don’t work which I am assuming, it is imperative to find a stable job. Preferably one that makes enough to support both of you

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RavingJodes t1_iy7a1m6 wrote

Out of the question. I just can't work. But thanks for the suggestion. Wish it was remotely an option. I've tried repeatedly to start my own business for the flexibility but that's looking impossible too. Just throwing money I don't have away to get started

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littlesausage01 t1_iy7a962 wrote

I can relate to you a lot right now. We all have to start somewhere, you have to work your way up to the top. I will remember you

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