Same, earbuds make it feel like I’ve jammed Legos in my ear. The sound quality is usually significantly worse too. There are good, high-quality in ear speakers… but for like $800. Otherwise, over-ear blows them out of the water.

Source: audio/video tech who produces music in his free time. I use Audio Technica ATH M60 headphones. They don’t have a built in mic though. They’re around $200.