No matter how hard developers may try, multi-player launches will always be terrible, because there will always be hundreds of thousands of people crowding limited servers. That's why you shouldn't necessarily get games like CoD on day one. I'm not entirely sure what you mean by sweaty players, do you mean players who are so much better than everyone else, or who get upset if you aren't perfect? People like that are a good portion of the reason I don't play PVP multi-player, so I hear you there.