Elden Ring pros:

-Massive open world where you never know what you'll come across next.

-Great and fun build variety.

-Some of the most memorable bosses you'll ever face.

-Very long game with tons of replayability.

Elden Ring cons:

-The story is practically nonexistant unless you either look everything up online or spend tons and tons of time reading every item description and making a crazy person map to keep track of it all.

-Even if you do the above steps, there's not really a story surrounding your character as much as there is lore and history for the world, enemies, and bosses

-Side quests are nearly impossible to follow without a guide

-It's a Souls game, so the difficulty may not be your cup of tea, especially as it ratchets up near the end of the game.

GoW pros:

-Great storytelling with a solid plot and very well-realized characters.

-Extremely flashy combat with a fair amount of depth (or at least more depth than the other two games).

-Lots of "oh shit" moments throughout the game.

GoW cons:

-Some of the bosses can be repetitive

-Game is relatively short compared to Elden Ring

Spiderman pros:

-The most fun traversal of any open world game by far

-Fun (if simple) flashy combat -You get to be Spiderman

Spiderman cons:

-Story isn't anything amazing, but it's not bad

-Some people feel the combat is repetitive, but I personally didn't mind

-Not much replayability

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