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Available-Wafer-1938 t1_iu62vih wrote

Try sincerely talking to him, and please don’t jump to conclusion because that’s one of the easiest ways to ruin a marriage, maybe for some reason he was assigned a android phone for work and he is using the carrier his company provided him, That would be more logical than him going out and doing stuff behind your back, And about the money thing if it’s a few dollars off here and there then I wouldn’t see it as a serious issue unless it’s an item over 100 usd. Just calm down and think logically for your marriage please.

EDIT: ask the bank to look at where the money is going, he might not know because he has nothing to do with it going missing and your bank could be hacked, someone could be slowly taking money out of your account hoping you might not realize.

Like I said in the beginning ask him nicely and don’t bring up the idea of him purposefully hiding his location ask if he has a work phone, and check into your bank statements

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Dapper_Astronaut3443 OP t1_iu6dzlk wrote

I love the brightside, positivity. But I can say for sure that his work does not provide a work phone. Unfortunately the money thing is hundreds of dollars in cash, and even going as far as to withdrawing from my sons account, (one I don’t have access to, but he does on his phone), he has taken $100 from there. Pulled in $20 increments. Also does cash back a lot. Then tells me things like he doesn’t remember what it was spent on or why he needed it…

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Available-Wafer-1938 t1_iu6ed9x wrote

Wow… I’m sorry then…. Yeah then there definitely is something up. Still don’t confront him just yet, try to gather more evidence and then confront him. More evidence that he was doing something wrong when you file for a divorce (if needed, try marriage therapy or what not first) will favor you the courts will look at that stuff, if he catches on that your investigating him then he will likely destroy evidence and etc.

Overall hire a lawyer in secret if you can and save everything you find

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