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Dapper_Astronaut3443 OP t1_iu6dzlk wrote

I love the brightside, positivity. But I can say for sure that his work does not provide a work phone. Unfortunately the money thing is hundreds of dollars in cash, and even going as far as to withdrawing from my sons account, (one I don’t have access to, but he does on his phone), he has taken $100 from there. Pulled in $20 increments. Also does cash back a lot. Then tells me things like he doesn’t remember what it was spent on or why he needed it…

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Available-Wafer-1938 t1_iu6ed9x wrote

Wow… I’m sorry then…. Yeah then there definitely is something up. Still don’t confront him just yet, try to gather more evidence and then confront him. More evidence that he was doing something wrong when you file for a divorce (if needed, try marriage therapy or what not first) will favor you the courts will look at that stuff, if he catches on that your investigating him then he will likely destroy evidence and etc.

Overall hire a lawyer in secret if you can and save everything you find

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