Have you tried Psychology Today? You should be able to put in your zip code and any specialties you’re looking for.

I’ve tried before, but it’s pretty hard to find someone who believes in HAES outside of reviews from other people.

I stand corrected - I must have not used the right filters or gotten too filtered the last time I looked.

Check out the Institute for Personal Growth. I saw a therapist there for cognitive behavioral therapy but they offer all kinds of specialities and I know it includes disordered eating. They are very inclusive.

JCMC mental health outpatient services. They also offer telehealth services.

That’s because HAES is nonsense. No one should be stigmatized for their weight or appearance but any health professional that tells you being overweight will not lead to negative health outcomes is just lying to you.

It’s a little fucked up that you’re telling someone, whose health you don’t know and who openly shares that they have an eating disorder, that seeking out a therapist that doesn’t spew fatphobic rhetoric is nonsense.

Only a yimby would say shit like this SMH

There is a pretty big gulf between fatphobia and scientifically and medically inaccurate nonsense like HAES. Any therapist that tells you with a straight face that you can be healthy at any size should lose their license.

That’s why you are having such a hard time finding a therapist that is ok with that approach. Most of them aren’t that unethical.

Yeah, I’m not going to listen to your fatphobic bullshit.

Why even go to a therapist if you just want someone who is going to tell you what you want to hear? You could just talk to your mirror if you want to do that.

I don’t have to justify anything to you. Go find someone else to troll.

12-step group can be helpful and supportive also