Submitted by Amsterdaamed t3_zvrt5d in jerseycity
GF and I currently live in Downtown Brooklyn. She really hates living in NYC and wants to move. She complains downtown Brooklyn is too crowded and our apartment is too small. I really love Brooklyn, but I recognize that I'd need to compromise and want to move to Southern Brooklyn (like Sunset Park area) looking for more space and less crowds. Money isn't exactly a concern, but if I can avoid spending over 3500 I'd prefer to. We're in our late 20s and probably won't have kids for 5 years or so. She works from home but I work in the Financial District.
She's pretty insistent that she wants to move to JC. She says the cost is lower and it's less crowded. We've been to JC for dinner and stuff a few times but apart from that neither of us have real experience.
I want to hear a locals perspective to convince me that its a good idea. What are the advantages of Jersey City v. Brooklyn for a couple in our position?
Sea_Discount8378 t1_j1qr552 wrote
We moved to Hoboken and then to JC without ever spending any time in either before moving, coming from the west village. Chose jersey over Brooklyn because (depending on where you are) it’s definitely way cleaner and way less crowded and much closer to where we like to hang out in the city (west side down town), plus tax savings. Ultimately we decided if we weren’t going to be in Manhattan we might as well be in Hoboken/JC so we can take advantage of some of the benefits of not being in the city.
I’d say do it - we’ve never regretted it and disagree with the earlier comment - JC and BK are not the same, but I guess depends where in JC and where in BK.