South Hadley (top vote when responding) is great for what you are looking for. Good school district with lots of nature and hiking trails (relative to MA). The downside is when you want to travel. BDL is a tiny airport so you get very limited flights and pay through the roof and you should expect 90 to 120 minutes to get to Cambridge or even more if it’s during rush hour. Grafton may be the most well rounded option on your list.