I’m not commenting here past this as I’m not trying to argue here.

Imagine one of your children goes missing and the only assistance out there for your child was asking the public - but you soon realize that there’s people out there (you’re not the only one) confusing other people by asking the wrong questions, as if the actual police didn’t already ask, and deterring the public away from the only request - keeping an eye out and reporting information.

Nothing makes sense when someone disappear. But it doesn’t actually have to for you to literally just look out while you’re commuting or out and about.

self awareness is a sick character trait.

Not sure it’s intentional but some of the things you are saying (saying the story doesn’t add up, suggesting crime or drugs) are inappropriate and unkind.