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[deleted] OP t1_izukd54 wrote

Reply to comment by danzgeturmanz in Kick bf out housing laws by [deleted]

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danzgeturmanz t1_izumsii wrote

its a non-landlord friendly state cant expect much

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[deleted] OP t1_izuneiz wrote

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OccidentallySlain t1_izuwo8e wrote

lmao 'sad'. Reminds me of a certain cut-throat slum lord's son.

Imagine changing your whole living situation then having that long-term living arrangement you never got a signed document for ended by someone else based on how they're feeling.

He should've gotten a subletting agreement on paper and really shouldn't be a dick to the leaseholder but all we've seen is your side of things and he might have his reasons. If you let him move in there then by law he is a tenant, legal documents or not.

MA law prevents tenants from having their lives upended without notice. You're still evicting them and they still have to go through the sucky process of moving out but you're not allowed to just call the police and throw someone and their belongings off the property you allowed them into the second you're not feeling it anymore. Big whoop. If it was happening to you, you'd call yourself a victim of a landlord, not a freeloader. Not his fault you didn't ask for rent; you let him live there rent free, that was the agreement you both abided by until you decided it was a retroactive problem.

There is a clear separation between property/habitation and relationship status in the eyes of the law so unless they are putting you in danger by living there you're just looking for a way to make their life harder than you're already about to make it.

Serve him the papers and suck it up. Spend time elsewhere if you really can't deal with them leaving you alone and staying in a separate area of the apartment. At least you're not the one moving out.

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[deleted] OP t1_izuxpyr wrote

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OccidentallySlain t1_izuyxs8 wrote

Hey there 10-ply, to quote myself from two minutes ago:

Not his fault you didn't ask for rent; you let him live there rent free, that was the agreement you both abided by until you decided it was a retroactive problem.

There is a clear separation between property/habitation and relationship status in the eyes of the law so unless they are putting you in danger by living there you're just looking for a way to make their life harder than you're already about to make it.

Serve him the papers and suck it up.

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In regards to 'if it was me', hope it never will be for your sake but I sincerely doubt that.

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[deleted] OP t1_izuzmnu wrote

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OccidentallySlain t1_izv1iy4 wrote

Act super soft and be called as much.

Sad yes, lonely no. It would seem I and the person I cohabitate with get along fine.

Good job complaining about how black the void is after choosing to stare into it long enough to get a response, random reddit person. I like your avant garde ampersand useage.

It's been a fun break from homework but you're too close to a troll for me to continue to feed you. In the future, try to find a boyfriend that will sign a leasing agreement that has a same-day eviction clause before you let him move in with you, and maybe try a prenup so they can never have any part of your assets.

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Gratefulrubin90 t1_izwv2j1 wrote

He's got a point. If you want him out he has 30 days, the law is the law. You agreed to not have him pay. He is your "tenant" if you do not give a written 30 day notice then you won't legally get him out.

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Chippopotanuse t1_izxecm1 wrote

You are in an an abusive relationship and you don’t like living in MA? That’s what’s sad here.

My goodness. Move to Alabama or Kentucky or whatever “landlord friendly” state you think is going to give one shit about you and your boyfriend issues.

You said you are financially well off. So here’s my advice:

  1. get a lawyer who can advise you on getting your boyfriend out as well as getting whatever abuse prevention order will be needed. Your BF seems like he gives zero shits about you and likes living rent feee on your dime. He is beyond absurd to live there rent free…but he is also calling your bluff and ignoring/manipulating you until you force his hand. And instead of blaming him and getting your ass in gear to solve this, you blame MA as if our courts are your real issue.

  2. Never cohabitate with a free-loader. Regardless of what state you live in…that’s on you.

  3. Never date or cohabitate with someone who is so immature and abusive that they can’t even discuss issues like the ones you are bringing up. He was living with his goddamn mommy before you saved his struggling ass to live rent free in your pad. Guess what…you are now his mommy and how’s that going?

  4. You don’t get to shit on the state we all live in, shit on all of the common-sense advice that anyone with half a brain would accept, and then throw a wall up and say DO NOT COME FOR MEEEEE!!!

  • You dug you own hole.

  • You came here.

  • You asked for advice.

  • You know very well what is needed here.

Both you and your BF are acting like kids. You are both in shit situations of your own doing.

Time to grow up and take charge or you can keep yelling at strangers.

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