You are in an an abusive relationship and you don’t like living in MA? That’s what’s sad here.

My goodness. Move to Alabama or Kentucky or whatever “landlord friendly” state you think is going to give one shit about you and your boyfriend issues.

You said you are financially well off. So here’s my advice:

1. get a lawyer who can advise you on getting your boyfriend out as well as getting whatever abuse prevention order will be needed. Your BF seems like he gives zero shits about you and likes living rent feee on your dime. He is beyond absurd to live there rent free…but he is also calling your bluff and ignoring/manipulating you until you force his hand. And instead of blaming him and getting your ass in gear to solve this, you blame MA as if our courts are your real issue.

2. Never cohabitate with a free-loader. Regardless of what state you live in…that’s on you.

3. Never date or cohabitate with someone who is so immature and abusive that they can’t even discuss issues like the ones you are bringing up. He was living with his goddamn mommy before you saved his struggling ass to live rent free in your pad. Guess what…you are now his mommy and how’s that going?

4. You don’t get to shit on the state we all live in, shit on all of the common-sense advice that anyone with half a brain would accept, and then throw a wall up and say DO NOT COME FOR MEEEEE!!!

• You dug you own hole.

• You came here.

• You asked for advice.

• You know very well what is needed here.

Both you and your BF are acting like kids. You are both in shit situations of your own doing.

Time to grow up and take charge or you can keep yelling at strangers.