Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_j0rtr19 wrote on December 18, 2022 at 10:58 PM

First of all YOU TAKE YOUR FATHER IN !!!! What is up with this BS from people who really just don't want to bother taking care of family. All the lame excuses do not count either. At least be honest enough to admit this.

The guy lost his home which is traumatic enough not only because he does not have a place to stay, but to no longer be in his home where he was comfortable and new where everything was, etc is fuel on this fire. His life has been turned upside down which is why he is having difficulty with his meds.

Now all the people he should be able to trust and rely on are calling him "not of sound mind"? WTF!!! You want to put him a psyche ward for this?

Yes, I am reading you the riot act because this man needs help. He should be able to rely on family, but with youR busy lives you have decided he is not worth the inconvenience. THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR ONE MORE.

You go get your father and show the man the respect and love he has given you. He is not trash to be discarded.

noodle-face OP t1_j0rvod1 wrote on December 18, 2022 at 11:12 PM

You have no idea what you're talking Bout

Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_j0rw7hu wrote on December 18, 2022 at 11:16 PM

Oh really? From what you have written I am right on point. You just don't want to admit it, have ZERO understanding of what your father has been through, and will not sacrifice to help him out.

I hope he is found.

noodle-face OP t1_j0rwggc wrote on December 18, 2022 at 11:18 PM

He was found. You do not understand the situation from the few details ive posted here.

Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_j0rxlhf wrote on December 18, 2022 at 11:26 PM

Then I understand the attitude. I've had to deal with it before

BobSacamano97 t1_j0u3qnr wrote on December 19, 2022 at 12:53 PM

I am not surprised to hear that your family doesn’t want to deal with you

Crimson-Forever t1_j0v23el wrote on December 19, 2022 at 5:14 PM

So the father removed his daughter as a health care proxy, is not contacting them, discharged himself, is not following medical advice but in your opinion is just going to happily move right in with them. I'm guessing you have some anger in you from being in a similar situation, but you don't know enough about this one to be preaching.

That said, Op I hate bringing this up but is there a possibility he has gotten into a problem with substance abuse? It's a pretty familiar story when someone stops paying the mortgage. Addiction is one of those things that can definitely over power the need for someone to pay the mortgage, especially for a year.