I did my own thing at an Elks Club. Hired a DJ, friend made a cake, and a cheap but decent caterer with a buffet. 14 years later I still get compliments of how fun it was. Whole wedding including the brides dress.......2500.00. Photographer will cost a bit too. Try Portrait Arts Studio. She did my wedding and my sisters. Good prices and does a great job. Have fun with the planning, don't let it stress everyone!