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WeirdEngineerDude t1_jas7q32 wrote

Do you like bars? Going to bars to meet people will generally only expose you to people who like to go to bars.

Go do the things you enjoy and do them in places where others are doing the same things. Then you will meet people who like the same things as you.

That can be tough for a lot of us who are introverted. It’s hard to do fun hobbies at home and meet others.

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bella_boop314 t1_jasdlsw wrote

Exactly. But I'm super introverted and no one is breaking into my house to hang out with me lol

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nblastoff t1_jaw15g5 wrote

Maybe play some boardgames? There is a meetup at Boards and brews on tuesdays. They also run a giant hidden role game called blood on the clock tower where you can just drop in get a card and play along.

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ThunderySleep t1_jat8s9r wrote

Seconded. I spent a lot of years depending on bars for social circles. It's a fun social outlet for meeting a variety of people, or having the occasional hook up, but most of the friends you make, the only hobby or activity you'll share is getting drunk together. Clubs or meetups are better.

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