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glitteryunicornlady t1_ix4kdfo wrote

Reply to comment by MightyMeat77 in 29M looking for Friends or Dates by [deleted]

I spent too much of my life wanting to be around others, to the point that the thought of being by myself was terrifying. I've spent the last few years learning to love being alone.

Now I like being alone too much...can't win. Lol

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MightyMeat77 t1_ix4kop5 wrote

There is being lone, and being ALONE.

Friends and family are important. Do your best to encourage that.

The special someone need not be an all consuming priority.

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glitteryunicornlady t1_ix4l52d wrote

Yes, true. And learning to get over my dependencies has actually helped strengthen my relationships with family and friends I've had for many years. I'm not the clingy bastard anymore lol

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