Yes i make a monthly check that I won’t put into our joint account because of this reason! We used to have a joint that he put his checks in weekly and that paid for food and half the bills and I paid for rent and half the bills since mine is one a month. Well he didn’t like I wouldn’t put my check in so he put his money in his own account now that I have zero access too. I paid all the bills this month and he hasn’t paid anything. I’m not doing that next month. I will pay my half of the rent and that’s it and my half of the bills. I’m not being fooled again next month. He will say oh do this for me and I’ll give you money, close your account and I’ll put money back but I refuse. My mom gave me $200 this month because I needed food and I stupidly put it in a the joint and he took it out so fast. So why would I put my entire check in there. I went to the food bank yesterday and he was calling me a lunatic for doing that. I’m so happy I did and will continue going they gave me a whole thanksgiving meal and stuff I really needed. He’s the lactic. I’m so sorry girl I totally feel your pain. I have no money the rest of the month and I’m not using all mine next month so my children have no Christmas. I am trying hard to get him out and I have been looking hard for a new place to live but where I live rent in like 3,000 a month and I pay 2,000 now. I have been to court and everything and they say file for divorce but it’s 6 months out for a date! I am going to do that tomorrow and try and restraining order again tomorrow. They are the biggest losers in the world. Have you tried to leave him too? I’m here if you need me!!