SainTheGoo t1_iyixktx wrote on December 1, 2022 at 7:11 PM

Reply to comment by AMC4x4 in Well-known town official kills domestic partner, then himself at home in New London by M0RALVigilance

I'm sorry for your loss. My grandfather has lewy body dementia and it's a constant worry on my mind. It's still in fairly early stages but they live 3 hours away so it's stressful. I wish they'd move, but they're worried a new location will be confusing and stressful to him.

AMC4x4 t1_iyjr54c wrote on December 1, 2022 at 10:23 PM

Ugh. I'm so sorry... It's a horrible affliction.

I get the distance thing. My folks were 300 miles away (and dad is by himself there now). I have some property in NH but it's way up north, so not really useful for these circumstances. When mom was sick he put an office in the upstairs of the garage, so I will probably go up for a week here and there and work from his place. Really difficult when there's some distance involved. Only thing I can offer is take care of yourself if you can. Sometimes that's all you can really control.