briinde OP t1_jab0aot wrote on February 28, 2023 at 3:12 AM

Reply to comment by thementor31337 in How to forcibly get POA over an elder parent (Burlington Co) by briinde

Thanks so much for your advice on the procedure. Do you have any advice on getting him out of my house?

He’s insufferable and hell bent on getting his way, at all costs including berating is and badgering us. I can’t do this level of drama for any longer period of time.

thementor31337 t1_jab3tbq wrote on February 28, 2023 at 3:40 AM

You could call Adult Protective Services like someone else suggested. It's hard though to get private placements when someone starts getting combative. Also if you have concerns about him driving you can make a report to the Motor Vehicle Commission medical review and they will evaluate whether he should still be driving.

briinde OP t1_jab657i wrote on February 28, 2023 at 3:59 AM

Thanks again. They’re on my list for tomorrow

Jimmytowne t1_jab4faf wrote on February 28, 2023 at 3:45 AM

Unfortunately you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. You don’t want him to be scammed because you care about him. But kicking him out could quickly lead to homelessness.

He may be undiagnosed or under diagnosed. I would make an appointment with a geriatric doctor and maybe a neurologist. Also a psychologist.