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falcon0159 t1_jdkw9uy wrote

To everyone saying the friend sucks - there are very few people that I would drive out to JFK for. It's a PITA, and expensive. It takes 2 hours each way and costs like $50. It's much easier just to Uber typically.

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Meowsipoo t1_jdm91ap wrote

This.

I have a friend flying in from the EU soon, and I told them to fly in and out of EWR. They wanted JFK because of the price, but I wouldn't be able to pick them up from JFK and told them so, many times.

They coming into EWR.

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internet-is-a-lie t1_jdkx4e2 wrote

If you read the OP (cancellation, not from the US, fears for their safety) and still thought this then you also suck.

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falcon0159 t1_jdl3xxl wrote

Ok, the OP also won't tell anyone here where they're going, so their communication probably isn't that great either. 2 Day old reddit account as well.

Does the friend live in Hoboken or in Sparta or in Princeton? That also changes the equation. Why would I drive to pick you up when the cost to do that will be also much as an Uber? Was OP expecting a free ride from the friend? How close is this friend, like best friend, or just an acquaintance? None of us have enough info to make a determination.

I have a bunch of friends and relatives that live in Europe. Most of them just Uber/Taxi to my house if they fly into JFK. I've picked a few of them up, but it depends when they fly in. Again, it's a 3-4 hour round trip depending on traffic, and I live very close to Manhattan. It would be much longer for someone living in West/South Jersey. Tolls and gas also make this trip expensive, to the point where the extra $50 to Uber is probably worth it, but I value my time. If I was OP's friend, I would just pay for the Uber, but I don't know the friend's financial situation.

If OP is that short on money that they can't afford the Uber - maybe traveling to an expensive country/city wasn't the best idea?

And yeah, I know I can be an asshole sometimes.

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pleuvonics t1_jdl5ffz wrote

After typing all that you’re still an asshole

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