Yeah but even with traffic (per gps at this time rush hour) it’s only a 16 min commute to Skillman where OP says her husband will work. I’d say that’s not terrible at all and still worth considering for a good town with nice houses and good school for their kids. Not to mention they’d still be close to nature and the lake in round valley, also PA, and not as far from the nyc either compared to flemington, so they’re gonna be more central