The honest answer is no, not really. J&J is not accessible by transit, so you'll have to be driving, which sucks. I'd say Newark or Jersey City are the only truly urban centers in NJ. Both have easy access to NYC which is great, but I personally would not want to deal with the traffic from either of them to Raritan even 3x per week. If you enjoy living in SF... be prepared for disappointment. The people on here saying Morristown are not credible. It's not urban.