I'm actually meeting with her tomorrow to discuss it. Even if I do go to Newark where she is, she mentioned I may get delivered by a midwife I've never met before and not her. I'm more concerned with the facility itself and want as smooth a labor as possible. I live close to some great ones and to have to travel almost an hour while in active labor to one that seems less great doesn't seem like the best plan. I do see other mothers in chats talking about choosing different hospitals so I know it's possible.