Thank you for this rebuttal

ETA: what is so insidious about this “false concern” kind of tone, look at how they started out - something totally reasonable, “not everyone follows up with their doctor when they change their mind”. That is a statement that resonates with everyone who’s skipped reporting back to their doctor. Then they slowly build from that element of “well, that makes sense” and head off into hate land. It’s tricky and I appreciate people who take the time to bust it down!