Where we used to live there was a big brawl once, or the beginnings of one, where there were maybe 30 kids gathered outside the house next door and a girl beating on the door to the house, yelling about how someone had disrespected her (or her cousin? I can't remember). Cops showed up, everybody started getting real belligerent, and come to find out the girl who was trying to start the whole thing had been driven there by her mother. Who was also screaming about disrespect. She kept yelling at the cops and pointing at the house like she expected them to just be like "ok then, yes you're right ma'am, she disrespected someone so we should totally let all these kids start fighting."