MizzCroft t1_j75y1if wrote on February 4, 2023 at 9:00 AM

Geez. You still have your memories with your Gramps. No matter what he's family and he loved you. I feel bad for the trauma he went through as a child. Always cherish those memories. It makes me miss my own Gram and Grandpa.

mikeventure76 OP t1_j76pkhu wrote on February 4, 2023 at 2:29 PM

That’s the part that confuses me the most - if what I think happened, happened…. Then gramps has been this way the entire time I knew him. And at a point I guess I have to wonder if it even makes a difference

But if that was him outside my window, and not the wind or my mind playin’ tricks… what the hell did he want