NienieDreamer t1_iych39t wrote on November 30, 2022 at 11:07 AM

Reply to comment by mikadomikaela in I looked after my brother's house and now I'm terrified by mikadomikaela

Also one more thing. I’m not saying you should, but if you leave him make sure to do it VERY safely. And don’t forget about protecting your family and friends either. It seems he’ll not live without you anymore no matter what it takes. If it comes to that then please be safe. Until that time I hope you can get Damien to be a “normal” (or at least not dangerous) husband. Best of luck to you!!

mikadomikaela OP t1_iycison wrote on November 30, 2022 at 11:29 AM

Thank you. I think I have come to the conclusion that whatever "business" they were doing was shady. I also noticed that it seemed to come to an end around the time I started dating Damien? We have a box of things that he doesn't remember having and thinks he doesn't need anymore. I'll have a look through that and see what I find. I'll look around my brother's house too. But I do think he has lost his memory. Both of them. I asked the doctor if either of them could be faking it and they said they definitely had some memory loss based on where their injuries were. Apparently Damien was lucky to be alive considering he was holding on to me when the crash happened. So...I think as long as he remains the Damien I married, I'll stay by him

NienieDreamer t1_iydoveq wrote on November 30, 2022 at 5:09 PM

Alright so the memory issue of Damien is definitely real then, but now my question is, could any of their memories come back? I won’t recommend wanting to get Damien’s back (and I definitely support you in wanting to stay with him!!) but maybe your brother could get hypnosis or some other kind of therapy? And maybe it wasn’t Damien himself either. Maybe you should find a specialist of the occult and look around if anyone knows what could have happened to Damien or what Damien is. If he is anything find out how to “deal” with him. What are the rules for his being? What triggers him (aside from you being away)? How can you find loopholes around these triggers? What happened with what you described could be excused as him having mental problems but I am worried about the way you described it; it just didn’t seem natural. With that, it seems like a HUGE coincidence that the business stopped when you married Damien. So I’m curious as the reason why.

mikadomikaela OP t1_iyf2hpx wrote on November 30, 2022 at 10:30 PM

He had a business on the side and didn't seem to be making revenue from the business my brother was involved in. My brother was the only employee and he was the only one to actually make some money. So maybe it was like my brother delivered something to Damien?- But if that's the case, why would my brother need me to look after his place?