I mean I understand why you didn’t want to tell her. You didn’t want her hurting herself over the past like she would have. But she was crazy enough to go this far. Im sorry this is happening and it’s wild. I would highly suggest moving again and changing your name and hair color and career and invest in a ring camera. It sucks but the only other thing to do is off her before she offs you 🤷🏼‍♀️