Honestly, sounds like she’s just trying to bring things back to normal. You have to ask yourself, why are you so scared of her now? She’s still the wife you know and love, just now with a few more…quirks. Talk to her. Communication is key. She hasn’t harmed you majorly, other than ripping your, what would lead you to believe she will more now? She clearly trusts you enough to see her like this, it seems like she does genuinely care about you. It seems you can’t escape anyhow, so why not just roll with it for a bit. Beautiful and caring wife, wonderful life, and all you have to sacrifice is hair you’re already losing anyway? Imo, it’ll all be fine. Sure she’s…something else, but you were happy before, why assume things will change after you help her out a bit