I think you're absolutely correct. I get that yous twos were closer than Star Trek an Uranus.. I personally might, or might not, have a sore spot when it comes to someone I lost.. or maybe it was cuz I fucked up an pushed her away from me too far. It's quite possible we all have a Jacek in our lives at one time or another. Just saying, from personal perspective, eventually talking about shit kinda helped. Doesn't hurt as bad as it used to. My bad, just for armchair counseling where it's probably not wanted. Trying to help is all.