Well you may have a parallel dimension bleed scenario here. But first things first.

Why are you working so much? Those are crazy hours! Is your blood pressure good? Get enough exercise? Do you date or have non-work friends? People underestimate long term cardiac health and chronic stress. Those things can kill you.

Take a vacation! Just first, leave a post it note for your secret roomie to buy his half of the groceries and pay his half of the rent! See, things are looking better already :)

But if you do want to date, don't bring them home. Wacky sitcom shenanigans will ensue.