>you just programed someone else’s child giving them information that wasn’t your place to give them

>let’s say it’s not grooming or recruiting at that point then it’s trying to get validation from innocent minds that aren’t going to judge and criticize harshly.

And there it is. Acknowledging the existence of lgbtq people isn't recruiting any more than having a book where a man and a woman kiss is grooming. Either come right out and say you believe being gay is a choice, or admit that hiding the existence of lgbtq people from children is ridiculous.