*Update

She kicked him out his 14th time while their daughter was upstairs by herself, his daughter is 11 and disabled, he called the cops being he pays rent and her car payment and was surprised that cops forced him back inside and took a report and offered for him to go to a battered spouse shelter, he is gathering him and his daughter's belongings to go to Safehorizons. don't know if he pressed charges because she is still there, but cops told him to start packing up and they will help him with the rest.

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She constantly uses the excuse of her bipolar disorder and gaslights him into thinking its his fault when all he does is provide for her. He needs to ask permission to go outside, if not she kicks him out and he sleeps in the car.

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Thank you for the advice!