Submitted by Jack_of_Spades t3_11dq01j in personalfinance
My grandfather passed away last summer. He left a sum of about 250k in his IRA through TD Ameritrade. My mother was the beneficiary in his will originally but we made an ammendment to that will with a lawyer. Essentially, my brother and I would each get 100k and my mom 50k. This was done so that the taxes would be reduced overall with each of us paying a portion instead of my mother taking all of the taxes and the higher tax rate for income taking a larger share of the inheritance.
We sent them the ammentment to the will, and so many pages of paperwork to set up beneficiary accounts. However, TD Ameritrade is saying they can only release the money directly to my mother because they have her listed as the beneficiary DESPITE my brother and I also having beneficiary accounts and paperwork sent in saying how much is meant to be sent to us from his old accounts.
Their estate department has insane hours that require us to take time off work anytime we need to talk to them. This seems... much harder than it needs to be. Can someone explain if there's a way we can argue this and get this split up the way it was intended?
If this is the wrong place, please direct me to the correct place!
KReddit934 t1_jaa4o6j wrote
Not any kind of expert, but generally.... beneficiaries on IRA accounts are *separate* from the will. So any arrangements you made about the will would likely not to affect the distribution of the IRA. At least that is my understanding.
(The corollary to that is that a beneficiary of an IRA doesn't even need to be listed in the will and does not need to wait for probate in order to collect their money.)