Also, she’s only 21 and “is getting a job”. She hasn’t even started her career yet. A lot of things could change between now and then. If you stay together then hopefully knowing her own mind is one of them.

That being said, does she/her father know the extent of your debts and salary? Because if so, especially as CEO, this guy knows marriage is off the table with his rule. And maybe that’s what he’s counting on—it’s a way to keep his daughter safe from marrying young while ensuring financial stability.