Submitted by Impossible-Cry-495 t3_127nvcx in personalfinance

I got rear ended, other driver admitted fault.

Their insurance company is offering to pay for my $500 deductible upfront, and a rental as long as I go through my insurance for repairs.

I've been in this situation before, but I usually go through my insurance first.

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84740296169 t1_jeeyktx wrote

That's very weird. Typically you either:

  • Go through your insurance, pay your deductible, and your insurance company subrogates the other party's insurance. If your insurance company successfully subrogates, then you get your deductible back.
  • Go through their insurance initially.

I've never heard of an insurance company offering to pay your deductible and rental but not pay for the repairs. They are ultimately liable for the repairs.

Edit: To add a bit more, if this is to get you to sign a release, then that would be a violation of your policy (most likely) with your insurer. If you sign the release, your insurer can deny your claim. A subrogation clause in your policy typically says you cannot prejudice the insurer’s subrogation right.

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Mayor__Defacto t1_jefpk3e wrote

They’re trying to get you to settle with their client for $500 and waive further claims to his policy. The aim of this is to attempt to limit their liability to $500.

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84740296169 t1_jefpnw1 wrote

That was my guess as well. That there would be a release from liability attached to this but does not sound very ethical.

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MikeyMike01 t1_jefqinu wrote

Nothing about insurance is ethical

They charge exorbitant premiums then do everything to avoid paying claims

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84740296169 t1_jefr72a wrote

I would disagree. Consumer-Facing insurance like Personal Auto and Homeowners is very regulated on how much they can charge and what is covered.

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garrettj100 t1_jefxa3s wrote

Are there regulations against insurance companies encouraging OP to commit insurance fraud? Seems like there oughtta be.

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Mayor__Defacto t1_jeg0jb7 wrote

They’re not encouraging OP to commit insurance fraud. They’re encouraging OP to break their own contractual relationship with their insurance company, but that isn’t fraud.

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stlhockeyman777 t1_jegs5pb wrote

What do you mean “by encouraging them to break their contractual relationship with their insurance company?” The presumed at-fault party’s insurance company is encouraging OP to utilize that contractual relationship with OP’s insurer…..albeit as a way for at-fault insurer to gain some advantage themselves and save money or hassle.

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Mayor__Defacto t1_jegx512 wrote

Well, your contractual relationship with your insurance company says that as part of your contract with them you agree not to accept settlements on their behalf. They’re encouraging OP to essentially take $500 so they don’t have to pay their deductible, and then go to their insurance filing a claim with the caveat of “I have already accepted a settlement regarding this matter and as such you cannot pursue the opposing party’s insurer for compensation”

And so your insurer will then cover your damages per your collision policy, but then they’re going to go ahead and raise your premiums (or just drop you).

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garrettj100 t1_jegnsqr wrote

You should explain that to OP's insurance company. I'm sure they'll be very receptive to that argument.

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Mayor__Defacto t1_jegxkew wrote

I know exactly what they’ll do if OP takes this offer. They will cover OP’s damages per their collision policy, and promptly tell OP that they will need to find a new insurer, because they will no longer do business with OP.

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Mayor__Defacto t1_jefqekg wrote

On further thought I am betting that they have looked at the damage and estimated that it’s more than their client’s policy limits, or they decided to drop them as a client previously but this happened before that became effective.

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caveat_cogitor t1_jegms36 wrote

I think this would mean that you basically accept responsibility on the claim on your insurance. Which means your rates will go up, it would not be worth it. Don't do it.

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Mayor__Defacto t1_jegxoow wrote

Your rates go up is the best case. More likely you’re dropped as a client.

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shinobi500 t1_jefych1 wrote

Is that even legal?

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Mayor__Defacto t1_jefyjw3 wrote

It’s not illegal. They have no contractual relationship with you, they have a contractual relationship with their client. Their interest is in paying as little as you will accept to absolve their client of further liability. Their client has damaged your property; if there was no such thing as insurance, you would be filing a lawsuit against the person who damaged your property, seeking a judgement against them. When their insurance offers you a payment, they’re offering to settle your claim of damages against their client; you’re agreeing not to seek further damages.

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DocPsychosis t1_jef849w wrote

>Go through your insurance, pay your deductible, and your insurance company subrogates the other party's insurance.

In some cases your company may even waive the deductible pending the investigation and subrogation process. Mine did after I was rear-ended; presumably it's so unlikely to have been my fault that it's not worth charging then refunding the few hundred dollars every time.

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shadracko t1_jefkfc2 wrote

Usually in those cases, the other insurance company already admits fault quickly without any substantial investigation, which allows your insurer to waive deductible. If you are hit from behind, and there are no serious injuries, it's pretty common for insurance companies to come to an understanding about fault in <24 h.

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garrettj100 t1_jefwzj3 wrote

> I've never heard of an insurance company offering to pay your deductible and rental but not pay for the repairs. They are ultimately liable for the repairs.

Sounds like that's why they're offering.

It's cheaper for them to pay a $500 deductible and allow OP's insurance to cover the balance, than to pay for the repairs minus the deductible.

It sure does sound like the other driver's insurance company is encouraging OP to commit insurance fraud.

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AlabamaPanda777 t1_jefze9z wrote

It's weird too because I have trouble imagining the insurance company is happy footing a repair bill (minus deductible) when the other company should be paying?

Like when OP goes to their insurance and says "hey bud my car needs repaired" aren't they gonna ask how it happened? And then contact the other insurance?

Hell I would worry about the insurance company denying to cover anything and saying policy was somehow violated by making an agreement that might save the other insurance company from paying damage they should

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Cetun t1_jeg2lw8 wrote

Are they even allowed to be taking to them? They are known to be represented by a lawyer paid for by their insurance company. Isn't this ex parte communication?

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cynical_waiter t1_jef5vvf wrote

The at fault driver’s insurance is the one that should be footing the bill. This is a quick attempt to shirk their responsibility and screw you in the process. Stop all communication with the other drivers insurance and contact your insurance rep about what has transpired.

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SteelPiano t1_jefysca wrote

Former insurance adjuster here. Your insurance company will take care of you much better than the other guy's insurance company. Your insurance will just subrogate the bills from the other insurance company. You might have to pay your deductible first, but your insurance will get it back from the other insurance. We were trained to prioritize our own customers regardless of fault and to not care as much for the "other insured" (or people our customers hit or hit our customers).

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monkeyselbo t1_jegmcc3 wrote

This. Report the accident to your insurance company and tell them what the at-fault insurance company is trying to do.

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myispsucksreallybad t1_jef2ju0 wrote

Hell no that isn’t normal. They are trying to have you pay your insurance deductible and have your insurance pay for the repairs, which in turn would make your rate go up.

Your insurance likely wouldn’t even pay it out if they knew there was another person (with insurance) at fault.

The at fault driver’s insurance is who has to foot the bill, you don’t even owe a deductible.

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stlhockeyman777 t1_jefedk1 wrote

OP’s insurance being required to pay for the damage if prompted to by OP is tied to whether OP has collision coverage on the policy and not tied to whether other driver was at fault. They would pay it minus deductible and likely subrogate and try and get deductible back to OP.

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myispsucksreallybad t1_jefsuws wrote

They have the option to use their own insurance to speed it up, then they (op insurance) just have to hope the at fault insurance doesn’t try to say it wasn’t their fault, which definitely happens. Your word vs theirs bs they try to pull all the time.

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WhatIDon_tKnow t1_jefeg8s wrote

>The at fault driver’s insurance is who has to foot the bill, you don’t even owe a deductible.

fwiw, depending on timing and stuff, if you go through your insurance you might pay your deductible and later be reimbursed for it. that happened to me once.

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helonoise t1_jefex8u wrote

Collision coverage is available regardless of who's at fault. The insurance carrier will subrogate and try to recover, including the deductible. Deductible is due regardless of who's at fault too.

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inlarry t1_jeflj7t wrote

>Collision coverage is available regardless of who's at fault

Yes, assuming OP carries that coverage.

>Deductible is due regardless of who's at fault too.

Only if OP uses their own policy to cover the repairs. There's no deductible if you use the at-fault party's policy.

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pbecotte t1_jefobr0 wrote

Op wouldn't have a deductible to pay if they didn't have collusion coverage

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JHtotheRT t1_jefxa9s wrote

Haha no your insurance won’t pay this, but if you have comprehensive insurance they hopefully will go and get the money that you are owed from the other driver’s insurance

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_DigitalHunk_ t1_jef70cx wrote

Hell NO! something's fishy.. call your insurance and go through the proper channel.. I had a friend who was duped in a similar way and then sued by the offender ( within 1 year ) !!!

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_DigitalHunk_ t1_jef8ihj wrote

Also ensure that you have a police report .

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inlarry t1_jefllvf wrote

Police reports mean absolutely nothing when it comes to the insurer.

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_DigitalHunk_ t1_jefmqzn wrote

Agree. But they are super useful if the other party reports a hit and run.

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inlarry t1_jefnf5c wrote

If it's on a public roadway, a police report is usually a legal requirement - but it's not going to help with the insurance side. On private property, like a parking lot, cops won't do a report at all 99% of the time because they have no jurisdiction.

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madlabsci16 t1_jefq6wm wrote

It won't always help with insurance, but it can. I was once hit by a driver who admitted to me and the responding officer that it was her fault. When I spoke with her insurance, they said they weren't going to pay because she stated the accident was my fault. I gave them the report number and told them it would be available in a few days. About a week later, they called me back and asked where I wanted to get my car fixed.

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_DigitalHunk_ t1_jefwr0c wrote

exactly ... its more of an insurance to ensure that the other party doesn't raise their ugly head..

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mystic3030 t1_jefn93w wrote

That’s not true. The police report is an official document stating what happened.

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inlarry t1_jeg0djv wrote

Trust me, I worked in insurance for 5 years. The company determines fault - not the police report. Unless a driver is cited for a violation in regard to the incident, the report means nothing to the insurer when it comes to their determination of fault. I can't tell you the number of people who'd come or call "but the police report says the other person was...", Doesn't matter - the companies decided differently, now pay up.

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mystic3030 t1_jeg1y3t wrote

Good for you. 🤷‍♂️ No police report I’ve had from an accident stated who is at fault. No one said it did either. It states what happened and if someone was cited for something. The insurance company uses it along with photos and damage assessment to determine fault. They ask for a police report every time you make a claim.

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Rueyousay t1_jeext0t wrote

My understanding is that they use their insurance because it’s their fault. That way it doesn’t cost you anything and your rates don’t go up. If the damage is $2500 and they only pay $500 for a deductible and your insurance company pays $2000, your rate is going up and their insurance company got out of it for $500.

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rollergo11 t1_jefwfgt wrote

Yep. Plus, one of the things we pay insurance for is for SOMEONE ELSE to vouch for us. Always file with your own insurance, whether at fault or not.

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SandMan3914 t1_jef809n wrote

Have their insurance company talk to your insurance company

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desecratethealtreich t1_jef8z9m wrote

More specifically: have your insurance company talk to theirs. Talk to the people who you’re paying money for a service, not the people who want to minimize how much they pay you.

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skyxsteel t1_jefmm24 wrote

I wouldn't even do that. What if their (at fault) insurance company goes "idk why they're making us talk to you when they're at fault".

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CapitalG888 t1_jefcghg wrote

I worked at Progressive for 19 yrs.

No, that's not normal.

Either go through them. Ideal.

Go through your insurance and let them subro. Keep in mind getting your deductible back isn't a guarantee.

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Summer184 t1_jegxkr1 wrote

That's great for the other guy's insurance company, instead of paying for the actual damages, they will pay you $500, let you take the hit for making a claim against your own policy which will probably raise your rates, and let your insurance company pay for everything else. It's a scam and dishonest, you should go through the other driver's insurance all the way. If they still give you a hard time, call your insurance and tell them what happened.

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slicknyc t1_jefcc59 wrote

get that in writing - then complain to your state’s insurance regulators.

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loudaggerer t1_jefa3dc wrote

Always talk to your insurance and let them deal with the other insurance company. Don’t say yes to anything so freely.

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UnusualEntertainer15 t1_jefuuur wrote

Another point to consider: if you use your insurance your premium will most likely go up next time you renew your policy.

As others said, you should put your insurance company to resolve this with their insurance company and stay away from weird proposals. That's why you pay insurance.

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Human31415926 t1_jegnebm wrote

CALL YOUR AGENT and let them sit it out. You can be 100% sure that the other insurance company does not have your best interests in mind.

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Jay-Five t1_jef9qse wrote

If you’re insurance pays then your premiums go up or worst case you get cancelled.

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WACK-A-n00b t1_jego4j0 wrote

Huh. I always go through my insurance. They go fuck up the other insurance.

The only time this has happened to me, the insurance of the rear ender sent me a check for damages of $2000 unsolicited. The repairs were like $5,000. My insurance got it fixed, the other insurance paid. My insurance said that I would probably have some issue suing in the future but if I wanted I could cash their check. And then I cashed the check. Done and done and done.

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maccrogenoff t1_jegrzbn wrote

The at fault driver’s insurance company should pay for the repairs.

If you make a claim against your policy it will raise your premium.

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Oklahoma_is_OK t1_jegzr9c wrote

Get a lawyer. Get checked out. If they total your car, make damn sure you know the value of your vehicle in 2023 terms. Used cars are worth more than ever before. If they don’t total it out, make sure you pursue a diminished value claim!

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alexm2816 t1_jefe4mn wrote

You don't get to choose how insurance subrogates (who pays) and I guarantee your insurer is no spring chicken and won't see 'at fault' and 'rear ended' on the same claim and say 'weird' APPROVE.

The minute you call your insurer and tell them you were rear ended and would like to file a claim they're going to get the other drivers information and make them pay the bill.

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Sea_Cheesecake_1814 t1_jefvof2 wrote

This is likely their off to settle your claim. Don’t take it! It could jeopardize your ability to recover if things go wonky. At fault insurance companies single goal is to pay out as little as possible.

If you can manage it pay your own way and allow your insurance to recover from them. This is especially important if you have injuries.

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LifeOfFate t1_jeggbtx wrote

I used to work for a major insurance carrier. If we accepted liability and coverage was in order we would advance the deductible to the claimant if they wanted to use their own coverage.

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yoise26 t1_jegletg wrote

NO! Also if u plan to sue for any physical injuries they will use this as a “settlement” and u won’t be able to get anything else

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sanverstv t1_jeglvez wrote

Contact your insurance. That's why you have it.

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RonBurgundy2000 t1_jegvgo6 wrote

Not normal. The other party’s insurance either pays for everything to your satisfaction or file a claim with your own insurer.

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penguinmanbat t1_jefdcij wrote

Hell no. Talk to your insurance and let them handle the other or give you guidance. FFS these insurance companies are getting wild with their tactics!

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SillyBunnySecrets t1_jefgfc3 wrote

Don't take their offer. I've been rear ended and ended up with my car being totaled by a teenager who had already gotten into three accidents. I was basically called constantly by the at-fault driver's insurance asking me to take "free money". I contacted my insurance company (USAA) and they explained the other insurance company was trying to get out of paying a bigger dollar amount because my insurance company went after the driver to pay for everything. If I had accepted, I would be on the hook for all the medical, repair, etc.

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mygirltien t1_jefie2h wrote

I think most are misunderstanding. The way that i read this is the at fault driver is saying we will pay for the deductible and rental as long as you have your insurance company process the claim. Meaning they will make sure repairs are equitable, done right and then process the claim through the at fault driver. Remember the OP has to requirement to process the claim through their insurance, they can do it all on their own, take the check, cash it and never repair or eventually come back and sue the at fault driver.

Sounds to me the at fault company it taking the lead to push this through insurance and overall help limit any extra paperwork or hassle that may arise from someone not going through insurance to fix. This does not at all appear to be trying to get the OP's company to pay for the repairs solely on the OP's behalf.

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taylor914 t1_jefjrlr wrote

Always just talk to your insurance and they will handle the claim and repairs with the other insurance

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halcyonandonanon t1_jefmrlk wrote

It's very odd that the at-fault insurance company would not want to control the cost of the repair. You may have either misunderstood or they communicated it wrong.

It seems more likely they were offering to repair through a facility in their own repair facility network, in which case you wouldn't have to pay your collision deductible, and they would not dispute the length of time you need a rental.

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cakes42 t1_jeg2028 wrote

After dealing with car insurance there's usually up to 3 offers the insurance company can give. I used to deal with them for my clients as well as my own accidents. I went from 80% at fault to 20% for me t-boning a woman that ran a stop sign.

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XiChineseWinnie t1_jegogf3 wrote

>Their insurance company is offering to pay for my $500 deductible upfront, and a rental as long as I go through my insurance for repairs.

Honestly sounds like the guy who hit you got his friend to call you up and sound like his insurance. He doesn't want to pay for your repair or to damage his insurance. He wants a claim on your insurance and for your insurance to cover repairs...

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mdnla t1_jegxq9l wrote

NO. The driver admitted fault, it should be going through their insurance not yours.

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Unique_University109 t1_jefbegy wrote

if you're not at fault, do not even talk to the other party. just go through claims department and let them sue the other insurer.

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moistmarbles t1_jefjsp5 wrote

I've been in my share of car accidents and I have never spoken to the "other guy's" insurance company. They have no fiduciary responsibility to look after you, protect you, etc. In an adversarial system, they are your adversary, not your friend. Besides, if you're not at fault, I believe your deductible is waived because the other guy's insurance is on the hook for the total loss.

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shadracko t1_jefksrw wrote

Is this USA? Because this makes no sense. Your insurance is going to go after the other insurer no matter what. I can't imagine you are even legally allowed to stop them from doing so.

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sponge_bucket t1_jefwwai wrote

Sounds like they want you to settle for 500 dollars under the auspices of “let me pay your deductible”. I would not talk to them without consulting someone whose job isn’t to limit how much you get paid in damages.

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jegodric t1_jeg14nq wrote

What state are you in, because in Michigan (where I live), insurance claims are run through your company, not the at-fault driver's.

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totallyjaded t1_jeg7j5y wrote

Well...

I was going to ask, too. Because it isn't unusual for an at-fault driver's insurance company to offer you $500 here.

While Michigan is a no-fault state, if one party was clearly more than 50% at fault (usually indicated by having received a ticket for a moving violation associated with the accident) the other party can sue in small claims court under mini-tort for up to $1,000.

I've had three accidents where the other driver's insurance cut me a check for my deductible just by calling them and politely asking to save everyone the time of going to court. In each incident, their customer had either been ticketed, or was obviously at fault (by hitting my parked car while I was standing next to it).

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Banksville t1_jeg3y49 wrote

I did this & regretted the quality of repair

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anderhole t1_jeg4kju wrote

Did you get this information directly from their insurance? Or is this second hand coming from him? Seems sketchy to me.

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Joba7474 t1_jeg70e1 wrote

Hell no. Make them pay for everything. A lady dented our Outback’s rear quarter panel with her door. Her insurance took responsibility, which is good cause it cost $2,200. They also paid for an intermediate sized rental that I talked into becoming a med size SUV. In your situation, they’re absolutely trying to fuck you into paying for the biggest part. Make them pay for it all.

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Lizdance40 t1_jegdf9f wrote

Notify your insurance. This smells fishy. Maybe it's no big deal, or maybe symptoms of whiplash will show up a week from now and you'll start feeling really crappy. That's why they don't want your insurance company to know. And I hope you've been checked out

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anon5005 t1_jeglowk wrote

OP said the at-fault driver's insurance is offering the deductable&rental and asking OP to report the accident to his/her own insurer for all further costs. That sounds perfectly OK

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Leena52 t1_jeghwu8 wrote

No fault insurance. I’d check with your insurance first.

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Paladoc t1_jegi2kz wrote

Maliciously comply, provide their information and all communications to your insurance company, and allow them to pursue these jack wagons.

They're trying to screw you over, do not sign anything from them, only speak with your insurance company.

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l397flake t1_jegmnko wrote

Any injuries to you? Any damages to your car?

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enraged768 t1_jegsrn0 wrote

You go through your insurance and let them deal with everything that's primarily what they're there for. Pay your deductible and since it's not your fault you'll get that deductible back plus whatever it takes to make you whole again.

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6hooks t1_jegw1gh wrote

Possible you two have the same insurance company?

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BarnabyColeman t1_jegycax wrote

Always talk to your insurance company, not the other person's.

If you are in an accident, I guarantee your insurance card says to call and tell them.

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WisconsinExPat t1_jeh1xzd wrote

Is there insurance company some company you’ve heard of?

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DominusInfinitum77 t1_jeh50dx wrote

It's because if you file with your insurance - they will be sued after by your insurance company. When they win you will get your deductible back anyway. Basically they are just trying to keep this out of court. However - are they doing this for nefarious reasons as in they think they will need to pay a lot more if it goes to court and they think you may be a dummy who will lose themselves in the mess an auto accident becomes or are they just doing it to clear up the court system and handle things amiably. Highly unlikely it's the latter.

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ThrowawayTink2 t1_jefi9y2 wrote

Were you hit by a Municipal vehicle? (police car, county plow truck, ambulance etc)

In some cases, Municipalities (town/county/state) are exempt from liability and you do indeed have to go through your own insurance, while they pay your deductible & rental if you do not have that coverage on your own policy. That was my first thought reading this question.

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LampardFanAlways t1_jegof7k wrote

That’s a weird thing, if true. A cop car hitting me while chasing a perpetrator is bad but maybe I didn’t pay attention to the sirens or something. Arguable. A cop car stepping out of a Dunkin drive through and hitting me when I had the right of way shouldn’t be exempt. I would be stunned if that’s the case.

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ThrowawayTink2 t1_jegskif wrote

Different states handle it differently. If I remember correctly it's called "Sovereign Immunity". My car was parked when hit by a city owned vehicle and all they had to pay was my deductible. My insurance paid for the repairs, but it wasn't counted as an at-fault accident and my premiums did not go up.

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skyxsteel t1_jefmwgb wrote

Like everyone said. This is scumbaggy.

I've been hit before and I've never used my insurance. In fact the first time I ever got hit and called them, they told me to go with the at fault person's insurance first. And that's worked out for me.

Now if they start stalling and giving you BS, I'd call your insurance for consultation and at their advice use your policy. They will then go after the at fault party's insurance.

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benauna t1_jefpjry wrote

This is exactly why you avoid insurance all together, and just get an estimate and send them the bill once it’s done

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AccessLine t1_jefyk6n wrote

I don't notify my own insurance company if the other party is clearly at fault and there is a police report that reflects that. Your insurance company will record the incident and it counts against you. (They SAY it doesn't count against you, but it does. They track the number of incidents you are in and even not at fault accidents count against you to a certain degree).

This is a scenario where those who aren't as experienced in dealing with insurance should probably get their own company involved, however.

edit I guess the downvoters are confused about how insurance works?

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Competitive-Egg-5255 t1_jefcr32 wrote

Get an attorney! They are trying to limit their outlay and care nothing about you. The attorney is worth the protection .

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stlhockeyman777 t1_jefduxy wrote

As a personal injury attorney I disagree. We don’t have enough info to say it is worth it here.l especially if there is no bodily injury. There is nothing to suggest OP cannot reject the offer and demand the other driver insurance cover the damages as assessed by one of their accepted shops.

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WisconsinExPat t1_jeflrcy wrote

This is something your insurance should be handling for you, even if they are paying nothing. You don’t need an attorney. Just say no and let them fight it out.

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