JaKr8 t1_iug4icw wrote on October 31, 2022 at 1:38 AM

Quality of like should be the priority here. It seems like you won't be homeless or in danger of living check to check whether you stay or move..

If you will be happier in your new location then ~$50-100k over 10 years seems like a nominal price to pay.

You can't make up for time lost with any amount of $$. So move if you'll ultimately be happier.

FadewayThrow OP t1_iug7qup wrote on October 31, 2022 at 2:04 AM

I was under the wrong impression about schools. I thought they had public schools at earlier ages but turns out these are public schools that you pay for. So we’ll still need daycare until the kids are school aged. Daycare there is significantly more… Back to the drawing board