I am very fortunate, in that most of the wedding and house deposit has been accumulated outside of myself from my partners family. They are not incredibly well off however they are amazing with money. So those things shouldn't influence anything too aggressively. The house purchase will wait though, after reading comments I am going to stick with my current place for now. I will also be cancelling those services tonight, something I should have done long ago.

As for groceries, I do buy those, I may have mixed myself up with my post just because I am finding it difficult to confront this. Apologies. I pay for half the groceries and fuel, thats about 350ish normally (Thanks, cost of living Uk!)

I am currently looking in to a second part time job, it is a common theme in the comments. I have settled on waiting on a mortgage, cancelling all non essential services, selling items and looking for a second job so far. The help is amazing, thank you