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MHGLDNS t1_j6ahnrq wrote

You be you.

An engagement ring isn’t either a requirement or a guarantee for a successful marriage. Over forty years without one and I’ve never, ever wished my husband bought one for me. Most women I know stop wearing them after a few years anyways.

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DrTreadmill t1_j6aieym wrote

Thanks for the perspective from down the line. As much as she says it’s ok to not have exactly what she wants I want to try to get her what she’d want which isn’t that extravagant in the first place. Details about what she’s liked aren’t as important here but if I can provide that gift I want to. I guess that’s what I was asking here was how others had went about it.

Congratulations on forty years!

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