I don’t live in “bumfuck.” I live in a suburb 10 minutes drive from a downtown east coast metro area with 1mill+ people. I’ve got city access but a big backyard away from the noise. I just couldn’t do sharing walls and city parking anymore. People acting like I fucked your mom and never called her back. I still love Philly, but cities aren’t for everyone at every time in life and kids aren’t the only one of those times. Public transit and traffic and noise is wearing after awhile, especially if you’ve got a dog or like gardening, which I do. Like die mad I guess ffs