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anonymous_lighting t1_j221n9d wrote

super comprehensive list

if only i had someone to check off a few spots with! at that funny age where friends are getting married, have babies, only hang out with couples for restaurant nights. hitting hard this holiday season

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AlVic40117560_ t1_j23wi9e wrote

Never underestimate the enjoyment you can have by doing things alone. If you’re always waiting on other people to join you, you’re going to miss out on a lot of great stuff. I’ll often go on snowboarding trips alone when nobody else is available. I have a buddy who just spend a month backpacking around Europe alone. Want to see a movie or go to a restaurant and nobody else has time time to join or can’t find anybody else interested? Go alone! I know there’s a lot of people that feel uncomfortable about doing things alone, but once you realize your in the background of other peoples lives and they don’t really notice you or care that you are alone, you get over it pretty quickly. Everybody is the main character of their own life and they’re much more worried about themselves than they are about you sitting alone at a restaurant. It’s definitely fun to go with others too, so reach out and see if anybody would like to join you. If they say no and you want to go, just do it!

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tellmetheworld t1_j224o8g wrote

That sucks but you need some new friends. Good ones will bring you in no matter what life stage they’re at

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tellmetheworld t1_j25f10w wrote

The guy literally just said that the parents are going to restaurants but only with other parents

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