Hey Bro, i sadly don’t have much advice. As a gay man I’m pretty much quarantined (not literally) to one side of the city. I’m impressed you’ve managed to think of that part of town I just mentioned without my even stating. Anyways, the reason I’m writing is it’s amazing to see guys (people) intentionally putting themselves out there in order to pursue their goals. Thanks for sharing that. Without even knowing you’re inspiring others to do the same. Good luck on your journey!