Submitted by atwork925 t3_zgukjx in philadelphia
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igotbabydick t1_izizgwj wrote
Power and lack of emotional guidance. Dangerous combination.
PhillyPanda t1_izj02qz wrote
What’s the deal with piece of shit men killing?
kifn2 t1_izj0a1x wrote
Tbf, this is not exclusively a man thing.
DonQOnIce t1_izj0pf2 wrote
Sure, it’s just overwhelmingly a man thing.
DonQOnIce t1_izj10o1 wrote
I don’t know if you mean physical power or more social power but honestly, when men use guns like this, I don’t think it has anything to do with being more physically powerful. A woman could just as easily shoot a partner at point blank range and they don’t do it as often.
Poor emotional guidance and entitlement seem way higher in the reasons.
porkchameleon t1_izj19vq wrote
> According to friends and associates of Feldman, she had been in the process of divorcing her husband.
Nasty divorce? (Not speculating per se or justifying what's happened, but it could be an explanation/motive).
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ColdJay64 t1_izj4oos wrote
I can't even fathom how shooting someone in these types of situations is considered, or thought of at all.
justanawkwardguy t1_izj4vsq wrote
I wouldn't call it power, so much as I would aggression. Killing someone isn't a powerful thing, it's something that's full of cowardice
Dryheavemorning t1_izj54dx wrote
...in a Domestic dispute.
I thought there was a rule against editorialized titles?
igotbabydick t1_izj5l98 wrote
It’s all part of the fucked up way evolution played out. For 10000 years men and women depended on physicality to get ahead until recent times (100-150yrs) where our intellect plays a larger role. Unfortunately women were usually not as physically strong and men control the power. For everyone’s sake, we are slowly evolving out of that mindset but assholes like this still exist, and you take into account poor mental health, it’s all a ticking bomb when rejection happens.
igotbabydick t1_izj6dnm wrote
What’s the source of the aggression? Every killing has a motive, and this one is text book power and control. She rejected him, and he couldn’t control the outcome so he killed her. It’s all buried in power dynamics, control and awful emotional discipline.
justanawkwardguy t1_izj6ney wrote
Temple is a level one trauma center, while Chestnut Hill Hospital is rather small. Not necessarily that Temple has more than other area hospitals, just that CHH has less and Temple was the closest larger one
Elliott2 t1_izj7scg wrote
my mom was relatively close to her and got her hair cut by her for a long time.
psuedonymously t1_izj9agy wrote
Not a new phenomenon, sadly. Maybe on an uptick as more women have the means to leave abusive men than in the past.
sandwichpepe t1_izjb6p9 wrote
bruh mods delete some of my posts in 0.3 seconds but let this shit slide? 🤔
William_d7 t1_izjctkj wrote
Experience with gunshot wounds.
randompittuser t1_izjdzdu wrote
They mean it makes them feel powerful.
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search4truthnrecipes t1_izjeuai wrote
It's been a bad few weeks for DV in the city.
sugr_magnolia t1_izjfibe wrote
The headline was changed by the site after OP posted.
Dryheavemorning t1_izjg03u wrote
So shouldn't it be reposted without the misleading old one? I've had posts removed when the site changed after posted.
ant_gargano t1_izjgghw wrote
Power struggle. He is angered by the fact that she is more successful in life and no longer needs him
covercash t1_izjjjlg wrote
What’s the protocol for deciding which hospital to take him to in the first place? Clearly it was a gunshot wound, why not go directly to Temple? Just CHH proximity since it was only a minute or two away?
justanawkwardguy t1_izjjong wrote
Probably took him to CHH to stabilize him for the longer transport to Temple
mortgagepants t1_izjjzka wrote
there's no place like home for the holidays.
grizzlby t1_izjkr84 wrote
Came to say this. Zero mass shootings in 2022 were committed by women. Nationally. And while this is clearly NOT a mass shooting, gun violence as a whole is an overwhelmingly male-committed act.
frankoceansheadband t1_izjlli7 wrote
It especially bums me out when it’s a murder suicide. How much of a monster do you have to be to take someone’s life and leave before you experience any consequences?
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tmmzc85 t1_izjnmze wrote
Downvoters ought to read "Demonic Males: Apes and the Origins of Human Violence," this guy might have put this "artlessly," but their gist is correct even if the deets are off - if you want to know why men kill their mates and sometime children, you're going to have to accept some hard truths about the fact that we're still animals, first and foremost.
eapocalypse t1_izjnnai wrote
And this is why guns should be banned and/or why it should be incredibly difficult to obtain them. When someone has access to guns domestic violence has an incredibly high chance to end in someone being shot.
tmmzc85 t1_izjnu83 wrote
>he couldn’t control the outcome so he killed her.
That's literally aggression.
I feel like you're too caught up in the chicken/egg here, these things are intrinsically linked - frustration over rejection and power differential lead to an aggressive, deadly outburst - it's not either/or
jakderrida t1_izjoa2g wrote
I recall an AMA whereby a blind redditor answered blindness related questions. When asked whether and how they became blind, they quite impressively provided an unemotional account of how he was among several family members his father shot in the head while sleeping before he fled town. I'm admittedly not a parent, but I simply can't grasp why one would murder their whole family before fleeing.
Bran_the_Builder t1_izjoaz5 wrote
Fuck, when they mentioned her daughter at the end the name sounded familiar. I was really hoping it wasn't a girl I knew in high school, but unfortunately it is her... I feel terrible.
DonQOnIce t1_izjocsu wrote
It’s so malicious. If you hate your life and want to go fine, but leave others out of it.
EdgarAllanRoevWade t1_izjszp5 wrote
We all know it depends what kind of mood the mods are in
prettylittlearrow t1_izk1uyj wrote
Abusers have no empathy for others, they see themselves as victims who deserve for "justice" to be served in a way that benefits them and only them.
igotbabydick t1_izk2il5 wrote
All aggression has a source, to understand what we do things and fix them… we need to know why.
ScottClam42 t1_izk9sxu wrote
I saw this shooting ping on my citizens app a couple night ago and was shocked to see it was at the top of the hill. That's extremely sad. What a selfish prick
SauconySundaes t1_izkg1h1 wrote
And a reminder that they needlessly got rid of the Witches and Wizards festival.
31November t1_izklnzj wrote
ebbycalvinlaloosh t1_izknwp7 wrote
Careful. They might consider this a “personal” attack.
Miserable-Effective2 t1_izkq6lr wrote
Yeah I don't get the down votes...I appreciate your question and wanted to know too!
irishgambin0 t1_izl28lj wrote
i was just reading the questions and someone asked how dating has been. he said not so great, and someone suggested he get a service dog. then, someone says he should instead get a service horse, adding, "survives getting shot, only to drown in pussy." lol
SupaflyIRL t1_izl9b9n wrote
Nah just gonna blame Krasner for the headline changing since this post wanted us to get mad at him for something. May as well keep the spirit of the thread.
Freaking Krasner.
Electrical_List_2125 t1_izlblx7 wrote
I would like to see this become a wide spread message, similar to how people are calling out who is doing the bigger mass shootings. It feels like we never get to talk about it. I love my close guy friends, my brother, many men but there is a major major socialization problem happening there and if you raise it as a topic of discussion you’re an ‘angry shrew’
31November t1_izlfqr1 wrote
Reddit: It is the best of places; it is the worst of places.
Strawb3rry_Slay3r666 t1_izlhcku wrote
That’s awful, that’s right around the corner from my grandparent’s house, I’m wonder if they knew her. Poor woman
ksquad80 t1_izlmqt5 wrote
I got banned the other week for joking that someone key a bad parking job.
Promoting vandalism.
Rich_Librarian_7758 t1_izlqwaz wrote
CHH is literally a block away. Temple is 15-20 mins. Sometimes, if the patient isn’t imminent they will attempt to make it to a level 1, but with an ER that close the hope is that they could stabilize at least enough for the short drive.
realityhofosho t1_izm8s4t wrote
Just why oh why, can’t they shoot themselves, FIRST?
yesmrbevilaqua t1_izmbh5x wrote
Same thing with my mom
Hot-Pretzel t1_izmiqlv wrote
This is so incredibly sad.
hanleybrand t1_izmokot wrote
I’m not getting the connection of editorialized titles to whether it says “domestic dispute” or not - the article said it was a murder-suicide by her husband
proximity_account t1_izmp5h1 wrote
A Tale of One Website
ipissexcellence21 t1_izmqkes wrote
Exactly that they are pieces of shit. I actually just read the article about the girl who was killed on Ellsworth and they had a graphic that shows it’s almost 50/50 male and female victims of domestic Homicide. I assume it was only the city because there were only like 43 total last year but I never thought it was anywhere near that close. I would’ve said 75/25 female tops and assumed it was even higher.
DonQOnIce t1_izixtbk wrote
What’s the deal with piece of shit men killing women when they leave him?