B0bb3r7 t1_iuekdc1 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 7:00 PM

Your own neighborhood for sure. I'd be irked if someone that has no intention of being part of my community came hitting me up for stuff and then vanishing.

sarahgrace93x t1_iuepmt3 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 7:35 PM

How would you even know? I mean do you know every family in your neighborhood? Not disagreeing they should be in their neighborhood but honestly how would you even really know.

B0bb3r7 t1_iuexdz4 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 8:26 PM

I'm not going to be taking attendance, lol. I don't care how someone is a member of the community (residency, work, friends, family, worship, etc). Halloween is probably the biggest community-building event each year. I want people who are interested in building the community. I don't want an opportunistic rando from Reddit.

What I mean is that it's low to solicit recommendations for a community from which one can leech.

NotBlaine t1_iueqlss wrote on October 30, 2022 at 7:41 PM

Friends of ours live in an area with a lot of trick or treating and some people just straight up tell them things like "our neighborhood had trick or treating last week but we always stop by here!"