No. The back hand is people like you who villainize the person entering the country blindly. The process we went through was long, hard, and expensive. It's still not over. We had the time to allow for a few year process to go through. Neither of us were sick. We both speak English. We both have jobs that allowed us to afford plane tickets and visa payments. My SO is not from a country where war is going on and he was safe there. But many people do not have any of the privileges we had and choose another option. Even as a documented immigrant, we signed paperwork to ensure that my SO would not be eligible to use public funds, so I don't know what free shit you think undocumented immigrants are getting...