Viewing a single comment thread. View all comments

pparhplar t1_j1msmz7 wrote

Reply to comment by GrizzandDotComsmom in First Christmas alone post-divorce by PghKbl226

I try not to allow others actions affect me, but it is hard, no doubt.

1

GrizzandDotComsmom t1_j1n187n wrote

That’s super helpful thanks. In this situation my husband of 13 years abandoned me 2 weeks before Xmas. I have no Jedi-mind trick to pull myself out of this

1

pparhplar t1_j1n3cm4 wrote

The only "trick" I ever had myself was time. I take to to breathe and enjoy what I have.

1

AntiqueDistance5652 t1_j1ygk0l wrote

I know very well this feeling. It's horrible. My partner of almost a decade abandoned me earlier in the year. Too afraid to talk to me, I've only gotten communication through their lawyer. I'm still broken from it, some days are better than others but it's so tough not being able to say goodbye.

1